You’ve been talking about writing and publishing your dream book for a while.

Every time your accountability partner asks you about your progress on the book, you tell her that you don’t believe that writing books is really your thing.

The truth of the matter is that you wanted the end result of publishing your dream books, but you didn’t want to submit to the process.

You felt the Holy Spirit nudging you about getting your story out there, but every time you tried to write, you felt the need To write in everybody else’s voice you’ve heard on social media except your own, got pulled in by the  magnitude of the work required, tried to get ninety days of work done in two weeks’ time, and sent your whole nervous system into emotional flooding and overwhelm because of doing too much too fast.

Writing is a process.  Rather than allowing yourself to be coached across the Red Sea, and then into the wilderness season of the writing process, you put your dream of writing a book down completely, moving on to the next new shiny object.

But the next new shiny object requires an intense process as well.  You can’t avoid it.  Instead of embracing this fact, you reject it, wondering why you have a pile of unfinished projects everywhere.

Every project that you embark upon has a 5L relational cycle attached to it, and every 5L real cycle has emotions and feelings attached as well.

This is why you keep suffering overwhelm, freezing up, dealing with emotional flooding as if you’re drowning, and starting the next new shiny project to mask the feelings and the pain.

This creates a continuous cycle of disillusionment, disappointment, discouragement, despair, and discontentment, making you think, “This couldn’t be what the authoring books ministry process looks like.”

And it’s not.

Your Refusal to surrender and submit to the process has made it that way.  

Simple, Functional, Grace-Filled Publishing takes you through Nehemiah’s Nucleus of rebuilding the walls of your mind, body. soul, and spirit, as well as rebuilding the walls of your writing process through reclamation of your soul, space, and identity so you will know your book, story, and experiences are enough one step-by-step process and unique design and creation at a time.

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Simplify. Adopt. Give.

I understand how hard it is to rebuild your life after a high-conflict divorce, compounded trauma, and narcissistic abuse. Since 2014, I’ve been on my own resilience journey. I also understand how difficult it is to go through the process of simplifying your life and the writing process in general, adopting a functional writing environment that that fits you, giving you a time, space, place, & margin so that it reflects who you are as a person in your current season.

i began my writing in march of 2016, and i never looked back. it started with my first autobiography, and then god branched out to calling me into more content creation from there.

i finished raising my two kids on my own (I am so proud of the young people they have become). I am the author of eleven books on the subjects of healing, identity, self-worth, trauma, divorce, rebuilding, narcissistic abuse recovery, and navigating toxic relationships.

I have a BS in Business Administration, focused in Management, and a Masters in Information Technology. While these two fields may appear unrelated to healing and rebuilding, they’re not. The same approach to troubleshooting, building, and rebuilding old and new PCs are the same approaches that we use when it comes to troubleshooting and rebuilding our minds, bodies, souls, spirits, and relationships in life.

We must analyze the problem, troubleshoot the different culprits for the source of the problem, implement a plan of solution from the data that troubleshooting has revealed to us, empower ourselves and others, and then in turn impact the other people who are in relationship with us, and affected by the problem.